Self-defense training is a must

“Many believe that the problems in society start with unloved children with little self-esteem. Duncan seems to have felt loved so we can rule that out. But Duncan, like most mass-murderers before him, was not suffering from too little self-esteem but too much. Maslow, you bastard idiot, the problems of humanity stem more from selfishness than from lack of self regard.”
- taken from The Jawa Report http://mypetjawa.mu.nu/archives/100103.php

Shasta Groene
The remains of Dylan Groene, 9, was finally found in a Montana campsite. How in the world did this guy JD3 (won't even dignify him by mentioning his name) even get away with this? He bound then killed Dylan's mother, her boyfriend, and his 13 year old brother. He later killed Dylan, and leaving his little sister, Shasta, for last and sexually brutalized her for three weeks. She told investigators he did the same to her brother. May that animal be tied to a millstone and sent to hell. If it wasn't for the customers and the intuitive waitress at the Denny's, most likely he would've done more of his evil on her as well. Knowing this type of monster, he would've moved on to other victims. Got me enraged when I first read about this a month ago. (Don't even get me started on that human excrement who killed his daughter and her friend. I'm glad he was caught. Also glad he didn't have the intelligence to cover his tracks. Time for him to die, obviously.)

I don't know the details of what went down, but if the killer had enough time to tie up the entire family, there was definitely a chance for any one of them to fight him off. My word! Was the boyfriend of the mother a little wimp or something?! Was he that intimidated by the attacker that he couldn't mentally handle it? JD3 had a shotgun and a hammer. Was the boyfriend in that much of a stupor that he couldn’t do something, anything? And from what I read, the mother had time to wake Shasta and bring her to the living room. Why did they not fight back?

The society we live in unfortunately places a low priority on efficient self-protection. Selfishness can kill people. Asocial behavior is nothing more than the purest form of selfishness and expresses itself in criminal actions. And people are potential victims if they are too prideful to think that they’ll know what to do in an attack without proper training. Either that or they’re just gullible about the evil in the world. The law isn't good enough to fully protect children. You can have all the laws to protect a child and catalog every single person who talks about doing anything to a child, but it won't help in the long run. It's up to the family and the child to learn safety and survival skills. And if that includes learning how to fight efficiently then great! I'm now more inclined to teach a seminar or two on children's self-defense. The classes I teach are for 13 years old and older. Not that I don't like teaching young children, but my experience in the past was that most parents send their kids to karate for baby-sitting and discipline. From what I recall, that's the parents' job, not the instructor's. The instructor only reinforces what the parents teach. But that’s another issue.

A seminar for a couple of hours I can deal with. Kids really don’t need prolonged self-defense training, anyway. It would be idiotic to think a kid can go toe to toe with someone more than twice their size and weight. No, there’s a different approach and it’s a whole lot better than forcing them into karate training for a few years in order to learn “self-defense” and then giving black belts to ten year olds after three years of training. It can help but usually what they learn at the local McDojo isn’t enough. A combination of training in self-defense, street smarts, and survival skills are absolutely necessary for a child. Confidence and caution should be taught concurrently. Both parent and child need the self-protection training. And it doesn’t take years to accomplish this, just an afternoon of learning and a monthly or even annual retraining. Parent and child can practice at home as well.

There are a lot of programs out there and they aren’t expensive. A parent who cares will take a little time to research and find something with a decent price and exceptional teaching. It's sad to hear about anything evil done on children. We can't totally eradicate it, but we can at least help prevent any more of that evil from happening.